Monday, May 18, 2009

Follow Through

Well over a month ago, a guy I met two years ago, and haven't seen in at least one, sent me a message on Facebook to basically tell me that he's been crushing on me for the last two years, not asking me out then is one of the biggest regrets of his life and everything he's doing professionally right now?

all of it i honestly would throw away to go on a date with you.

Wow. I was, truly, flattered, and told him so. I can't say my feelings are mutual, but I don't dislike him, so I also told him that I'd be willing to go on a date when he got back from his business trip

Two weeks later he was back and sent me another Facebook message, asking me out for the coming weekend. Unfortunately, I had an out of town wedding to go to, but suggested we get together another time.

All he's done since then is "poke" me. Twice.

He's either STILL incredibly nervous about asking me out, or he isn't as in to me as he claims.

Would it kill for a little follow through?


Jinxie said...


He finally sent me another Facebook email this past Wednesday evening, asking if we could get together this coming weekend. I responded on Thursday morning, saying yes, I might be available this Saturday and asked if that would work.

And, as expected, nada. Absolutely nada.

Now, he HAS updated his Facebook status at least twice a day, uploaded several pictures, and I think he watched the NBA game tonight.

Stellar, sir, just stellar. Not only did neither of us have a date tonight, I'm leaning towards not going out with him ever.